Taking things personally, overanalysing and overthinking – we all struggle with this from time to time. It is easy to to feel that you are unable to connector communicate they way you would expect. Yet it is so hard not to keep that disconnection as a reflection on our worth or dedication.
Nothing others do is because of you
What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering
It all boils down to a choice. A choice we sometimes forget we have, but one that can either strengthen us or weaken us. There’s always a choice.
There’s this saying I like;
“What if I fall? Oh darling, but what if you fly?”
What would you choose, fear or love?
The reality is: the world is impersonal and people do annoying, painful, unimaginable things every single day. That doesn’t mean you have to let that get under your skin.
The more you focus on things that make you feel good personally, the less you will take things personally, and the more you will enjoy life.